First thing fellas, we have one thing wrong. “She”, the woman of your dreams is not the adventure you are on. The first step of respect is to realize that the adventure is found with her. She is not the destination, but the journey.
Second thing is to covet her mind and you will enjoy the rest of her. Focusing on the looks/body is akin to judging a book by the cover and never reading the inside because you think you know the story. With her you don’t. You have to want to know that story so much she is like the book you cannot put down. Give her this kind of attention. Make her the only song on your playlist.
A woman considers respect being wanted for her mind. Love is more like being coveted as the only mind. By coveting hers you give yours and the physical realm follows.
A woman stands as the symbolic “last, so, most perfect creation” in the Bible. This symbolic render is important to comprehend. It is not about the Bible as much as it is a symbolic image that all humankind has baked in, whether you read the Bible or not because culture has brought us here, to this point where woman had rightly stood up and said, “I am equal and I deserve equal respect” this is true and about time. Same with race and gender identity. In some ways these are all very similar. Even the Jew genocide is similar. We, as humans, are all created equal. Just because we symbolically identify with a male as as the leader does not diminish that the “last” creation is the best one.
I believe in women. I believe in people who live life on their own terms. Males have forced women to this point. Women, in their own right are ripping their equality from the fabric of our combined culture. More power to them.