It may not always seem like this, but over time what we expect is what we get. Because indelibly, we believe it so strongly we act in ways that bring that out of others and we see that, confirmed in the universe, because we look for it and find ways to see it, no matter what. Confirmation is better than being wrong and the ego will do whatever it takes to not be wrong, even in agreeing that it is. In the end, to remain in self-righteous power is the drive of the ego.
When we respond to others in ways that confirm how we see them instead of allowing them to be themselves and accepting them in an open, positive, empowering ways, we miss their gift; we push them to feel less of themselves and sooner or later our relationship is based on this colorized, limited, defensive, unattractive energy.
Start by allowing, don’t project. Give others space to be and grow, find the beauty in the journey. We are all humans and are both strong and weak, good and bad, right and wrong. Let’s start focusing on our growth and not our shortcomings. See through the eyes of potential and support. Be positive!
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